Well I was shocked that I have had no entry for my blog for about 5 months now. Well that pretty much was the length of time that I was in dry spell. Well I was busy and I didn’t have time to entertain interested parties let alone looking for one. Well I was pretty free this time around as I wait for my work appointment next year jan. So I had fun with a Chinese guy in downtown KL.
At first looking for his place was really difficult. While partly because I was going to catch a movie that afternoon ( New Moon was quite boring, but Jacob and his pack boys surely make me horny hehe). So when I was about o head over to his place it was evening already. I was going to give up actually as I was not happy of going back from downtown KL all by myself. However, he offered to send me back so that was a deal sealed. I travelled there by LRT and went into his apartment after a merry go round looking for the Lift that goes to his place.
The view from his apartment is fanstastic. Dramatic view of KLCC skyline with KL tower totally in view. It’s his uncle’s place but being away means he has the place for himself. We’ll call him Alan k. So we went straight into business. He was pretty nice guy. Size department a little bit disappointing but not an issue. He kissed pretty well though sometimes his kiss is bit sloppy. Averaged bodied like me. But he is nice to hold. Well I was on dry spell so I could seriously jumped on any average Joe really. The sex went on for a while. He was quite long lasting and we came together. Then he sent me back.
As an afterthought it was fun. But then I do feel guilty as I cheated behind Adam’s back. We have been chatting pretty often really and our relationship has been going on well. He’ll come visit me in March and will try to relocate here. I was happy of course, he’s a nice person plus he is a white guy from NZ. Among my gay fren having an English-speaking Caucasian boyfriend is a cool thing. Something which I have. Well I also see him as a way of permanently living in NZ when I get older. but most of all I am just happy to have someone to call my own. After a very disappointing relationship with KJ (well partly it was my fault), am just happy to have another nice boyfren who is younger and earns bit more, even when he is so far away and his true character is still not to be seen.
Next week I will celebrate the first year of my return from Auckland. I can still remember the feeling that I had when I was at the airport waiting for departure. Breaking up with KJ means I did not leave anything behind like some of my friends did. But then it was sad to be going back to Malaysia. I have to go back into the closet though I am not actually deep in one either.
Nevertheless I am happy to retain many parts of Kiwi in me. Like many I now enjoy beer and wine, listening to Jazz music and also develop a liking for anything Kiwi or Australian, from accents, to people and places and also culture. Too bad that I can’t do sport. But then gay kiwis don’t really do sport either.
Next year will promise even longer dry spell, at least until march. But I reckon that I will be busy then so will not notice time flies. My workplace next year will determine how I will live and plan my life. I got to be careful in planning. I will do well I hope. In God’s providence I trust.
